ROM 0 Posted April 28, 2005 Share Posted April 28, 2005 I've been lurking for a while, decided to take the plunge. I've got one of the "what would you do questions". Found our my g/f of 6 months is seeing another guy and I'm pretty gutted about it. I thought/think I love her, thought she did the same. Apparently not. She is all sorry and asking to forgive and continue, but if I hadn't have found out, it would still probably be going on.... Link to post Share on other sites
farquah 0 Posted April 28, 2005 Share Posted April 28, 2005 No question, give her the boot. Once trust is gone can never be regained its a one time offer only. Or you`ll find yourself thinking she is going behind your back every time she is out with her mates or whatever. Makes the diff. if you do the finishing too. Link to post Share on other sites
HoTRoD 2 Posted April 28, 2005 Share Posted April 28, 2005 I agree. Link to post Share on other sites
Yuki's Passion 1 Posted April 28, 2005 Share Posted April 28, 2005 tough one mate. you said youve been dating for 6 months right? maybe she didnt make the decision to see you "only." Maybe she thought you were doing what she was doing? Dunno. If you two had some understanding that you were only dating each other, then give her the boot. If not, then you should just speak to her and find out if she wants a serious BF. Maybe she doesnt. Hope it all works out for ya mate! Link to post Share on other sites
ROM 0 Posted April 28, 2005 Author Share Posted April 28, 2005 We never had a deep discussion about exclusivety (sp.) but I'm pretty sure it was taken for granted - we were talking about future and being together a long time. (Christ, I didn't know you needed to discuss that now! That would be sad) Link to post Share on other sites
Yuki's Passion 1 Posted April 28, 2005 Share Posted April 28, 2005 Just depends on the person ya know. Some people here enjoy "playing" per say... But, if you were talking about the future then - Id have to have a serious talk if she was my girlfriend. If you dont mind, how did you find out? She tell you? Or, did you see her out with the guy. If she told you chances are its cuz she wants to come clean. Some J-girls I know are like that. Link to post Share on other sites
ROM 0 Posted April 28, 2005 Author Share Posted April 28, 2005 I was told by someone. Link to post Share on other sites
Ocean11 0 Posted April 28, 2005 Share Posted April 28, 2005 1. Pick a dandelion seed head. 2. Blow it once. Say "She loves me". 3. Blow it again. Say "She loves me not". 4. Repeat steps 3 and 4 until there are no seeds left. When the last seed has been blown off, you'll know the deal and can act accordingly. Link to post Share on other sites
SHAG 0 Posted April 28, 2005 Share Posted April 28, 2005 Come up with a cunning dumping plan, then dump her with great drama. Link to post Share on other sites
bobby12 0 Posted April 28, 2005 Share Posted April 28, 2005 farquah has your answer. Link to post Share on other sites
maoriboy 0 Posted April 29, 2005 Share Posted April 29, 2005 Quote: No question, give her the boot. Once trust is gone can never be regained its a one time offer only. Or you`ll find yourself thinking she is going behind your back every time she is out with her mates or whatever. Makes the diff. if you do the finishing too. Indeed. you cant trust someone that goes behind your back...whether its a cheating gf or a friend that cheats you out of something...its DEFINITELY a one time offer. Link to post Share on other sites
gamera 0 Posted April 29, 2005 Share Posted April 29, 2005 Move on! Link to post Share on other sites
axion 0 Posted April 29, 2005 Share Posted April 29, 2005 kick her to the curb. no point in wasting your time, your gonna spend more time worrying than actually enjoying the relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
ROM 0 Posted April 29, 2005 Author Share Posted April 29, 2005 I think that is what I'm going to do. It will happen this weekend. Wish me luck! Link to post Share on other sites
maoriboy 0 Posted April 29, 2005 Share Posted April 29, 2005 good luck ROM....and dont forget..break up sex is always a possibility Link to post Share on other sites
Ocean11 0 Posted April 29, 2005 Share Posted April 29, 2005 Whoa, not so fast! Pimping looks like a very good option at this point... Link to post Share on other sites
animal 0 Posted April 30, 2005 Share Posted April 30, 2005 Humiliate her, tell her you've calmed down, some good break up sex, then boot here (humiliating here once more). Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
slow 0 Posted April 30, 2005 Share Posted April 30, 2005 quote: -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Originally posted by ROM: I thought/think I love her, -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Are you sure that you loved her? If you loved her, it will be really tough to forget about her. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
little eyebrows 0 Posted May 1, 2005 Share Posted May 1, 2005 Dump her. Simple as that. A cheater is a cheater, just like a cheeter is a cheeter. It will not change. Link to post Share on other sites
sweets87 0 Posted May 1, 2005 Share Posted May 1, 2005 be a bitch about it and throw her shit out the window. ive always wanted to witness a scene like that lol how classic. ok so no you probably shouldnt do that but i would say you should definatly kick her to the curb. if it was meant to be then somehow you two will make it back together but for now get rid of her. Link to post Share on other sites
Yuki's Passion 1 Posted May 4, 2005 Share Posted May 4, 2005 ROM, you give her the boot?? Breakup sex is great too! Link to post Share on other sites
Fattwins 0 Posted May 4, 2005 Share Posted May 4, 2005 Id tell the other guy to screw with her then dump her in a second Link to post Share on other sites
ROM 0 Posted May 5, 2005 Author Share Posted May 5, 2005 Well I did a lot of thinking about it, and decided to get rid, which I did 2 nights ago. I feel much better than I thought I would - lets hope that continues. Link to post Share on other sites
LiquidX 0 Posted May 6, 2005 Share Posted May 6, 2005 Good on ya! Find a better one next time Link to post Share on other sites
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