2pints-mate 0 Posted April 8, 2008 Share Posted April 8, 2008 Lots of married shouted up so far. One person needs to be elaborating though.... so, come on! Link to post Share on other sites
HelperElfMissy 42 Posted April 8, 2008 Share Posted April 8, 2008 Well I am married and life is great. Wouldn't still be married if it wasn't after 18 years!! I like that we had kids young, and now they are grown and growing hubby and I get to do things like snowboard together and with the kids .... that is kinda more fun than going to bingo halls together! LOL Link to post Share on other sites
@tokyo 14 Posted April 15, 2008 Share Posted April 15, 2008 Single and unattached right now Link to post Share on other sites
thursday 1 Posted July 5, 2008 Share Posted July 5, 2008 life is till wonderful. 7 years now and still no itch. Link to post Share on other sites
JA2340 16 Posted July 5, 2008 Share Posted July 5, 2008 Once was married (a son), then widowed, then married again (2 daughters), then divorced, now living with my "life partner" of 15 years (no offspring - the factory's been closed at my end!). Confused, yet? Link to post Share on other sites
thursday 1 Posted July 6, 2008 Share Posted July 6, 2008 I bet the widowing part was very hard. I just can't imagine. Link to post Share on other sites
charlotte 0 Posted July 6, 2008 Share Posted July 6, 2008 Yes, I was thinking that. My closest to those will be Dating - serial monogomist. Link to post Share on other sites
Tubby Beaver 209 Posted July 6, 2008 Share Posted July 6, 2008 Going out with my girl friend for over 6 years now, sure feels like we're married!! Link to post Share on other sites
indosnm 0 Posted July 6, 2008 Share Posted July 6, 2008 What are you waiting for moite! Link to post Share on other sites
JA2340 16 Posted July 7, 2008 Share Posted July 7, 2008 It was difficult for a while, then one day you just wake up and decide that you have to "get over it". At that point you deal with the grief, and move on. Hardest was dealing with the fact that the in-laws blamed me. Then there was the effect it had on the son who was 13 months old at the time is mother died. As I said, you get over it and move on! Link to post Share on other sites
thursday 1 Posted July 7, 2008 Share Posted July 7, 2008 yeah, just get on with it, instead of thinking what could have been. Hope I'll never have to do that. Link to post Share on other sites
Tubby Beaver 209 Posted July 7, 2008 Share Posted July 7, 2008 Originally Posted By: Indo What are you waiting for moite! haha....dunno! Link to post Share on other sites
Molochan 0 Posted July 8, 2008 Share Posted July 8, 2008 I am attached single. I hope to get married in the near future. Link to post Share on other sites
tsondaboy 0 Posted July 8, 2008 Share Posted July 8, 2008 whats attached single? Link to post Share on other sites
Ewok 2 1 Posted July 8, 2008 Share Posted July 8, 2008 perhaps attached was meant like "someone special" Link to post Share on other sites
thursday 1 Posted July 9, 2008 Share Posted July 9, 2008 Originally Posted By: JA It was difficult for a while, then one day you just wake up and decide that you have to "get over it". At that point you deal with the grief, and move on. Hardest was dealing with the fact that the in-laws blamed me. Then there was the effect it had on the son who was 13 months old at the time is mother died. As I said, you get over it and move on! why did they blame you? don't elaborate if not comfortable dude. Link to post Share on other sites
1 4 Posted July 9, 2008 Share Posted July 9, 2008 Great atttitude mate. I remember something similar happening to a family friend and they said that you know there's really not much else you can do but get on with it, but it must be hard. Link to post Share on other sites
HelperElfMissy 42 Posted July 9, 2008 Share Posted July 9, 2008 It is everyones nightmare isn't it. That and losing a child. You did it tough JA. You're an amazing person to come out the other side of that tunnel with such a positive outlook on life. Link to post Share on other sites
Molochan 0 Posted July 14, 2008 Share Posted July 14, 2008 It meaning is I have steady boyfriend but am not married, so, single... but attached! Link to post Share on other sites
thursday 1 Posted July 14, 2008 Share Posted July 14, 2008 ah.. available Link to post Share on other sites
JA2340 16 Posted July 14, 2008 Share Posted July 14, 2008 Blame is easy to spread around. I was blamed for not doing enough to try to revive her. Now, I had, at that stage, a current Bronze medal for resuscitation, applied CPR for over 30 minutes until Ambos turned up, they used oxy-viva and compressions, loaded her into the ambulance and took her to hosiptal. I am at a loss as to what I could possibly have done different, but there you go. I am still alive, they have both passed on. The real story is - get a grip, grieve and get on with life. Link to post Share on other sites
PWL 0 Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 Good for you JA. I'm single. Actually broke up with a boyfriend of 3 years just last month. Link to post Share on other sites
thursday 1 Posted July 16, 2008 Share Posted July 16, 2008 don't worry, there are plenty more fish in the ocean. Unless of course they have all been stabbed or are too busy binge drinking and then getting stabbed. Link to post Share on other sites
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