SA 0 Posted October 11, 2006 Share Posted October 11, 2006 Heavy thread. I sincerely hope that's the last you hear of it griller. Link to post Share on other sites
holo 0 Posted October 11, 2006 Share Posted October 11, 2006 Quote: Originally posted by SA: Heavy thread. I sincerely hope that's the last you hear of it griller. hear hear, scary stuff Good luck ! Link to post Share on other sites
soubriquet 0 Posted October 11, 2006 Share Posted October 11, 2006 I'm sorry to offend some sensitive people here. At present I am trying to negotiate with my ex- for my children to come for Christmas. I want them to fly as unaccompanied minors. That is a special class of ticket where they are met at one end, escorted by airline staff through all of the formalities, and deivered at the other. My ex- wants me to make two return trips to Perth to collect and return them. Make of that what you will. The last time I went to Perth I found myself on the Australian Federal Police watch list. I had a series of very unpleasant interviews with the police. It all came to nothing because the allegations against me were baseless. I find all of this very stressful. Right now I am in absolute despair, and gripped by profound depression. I am also feeling very prejudiced against women who lie, and use children to manipulate others. Link to post Share on other sites
cheeseman 1 Posted October 11, 2006 Share Posted October 11, 2006 Good to hear it griller. Have some cheese to celebrate. Sorry to hear it soubriquet. Have some cheese to cheer yourself up! Link to post Share on other sites
Ocean11 0 Posted October 11, 2006 Share Posted October 11, 2006 Well if I were in your shoes soubs, I'd be thinking of investing my disposal income in a very, very aggressive lawyer. Link to post Share on other sites
kintaro 0 Posted October 11, 2006 Share Posted October 11, 2006 Soubriquet, I couldn't agree more with Ocean. You sound to be in dire circumstances. I wish you the best of luck. But forget about disposable income, do what you have to..regardless of the means! Link to post Share on other sites
Kumapix 0 Posted October 11, 2006 Share Posted October 11, 2006 man, what a thread! Griller, let us know what happens (ie how she became unpregnant) Link to post Share on other sites
daver 0 Posted October 11, 2006 Share Posted October 11, 2006 Quote: Originally posted by rach: Perhaps I just can't people being so nasty, especially about something like that. sounds crazy to any normal person eh? well i suppose the simple answer to you question is, some pepole are crazy. it does happen. it has happened to my best friend. thankfully, griller's issue has been cleared up. (we hope) Link to post Share on other sites
soubriquet 0 Posted October 11, 2006 Share Posted October 11, 2006 I have a very aggressive lawyer in Perth, but it costs $10k up front to get into her office. I'm skint and my meagre capital is assigned to flying my children here and back for the next few years. The only thing in my favour is time. They are growing up and they want to come. She won't be able to hold out much longer. Cheeseman. I was on the phone to my boys last night. No1 son volunteered that he's going to bring me a kilo of Mersey Valley (Tasmanian) vintage cheddar. It's a magnificent full strength cheddar with a delightful crumbly texture. I'm looking forward to that Link to post Share on other sites
maoriboy 0 Posted October 12, 2006 Share Posted October 12, 2006 SO griller give us the details. How did she tell you?? wsa she really pregnant? and if so what happened?? Hope they arent too personal questions! Link to post Share on other sites
damian 0 Posted October 12, 2006 Share Posted October 12, 2006 I know the Mersey Valley alright, nice place, good cheese. I also know more than I deserve about dishonest women. I like a full strength cheddar. A mate of mine, lives in NZ, two kids, getting divorced. He’s well enough paid and loves his kids. But for him to get on in life with a home, new wife and building for the future he’s got to leave NZ for Sydney to earn more money, such is the financial cost his ex is placing on him. So to pay the dough the courts have dictated he has to move away from his kids. Its pretty sad. I’m a multiple broken family son. Soub, all I can offer for advice is be a good dad and don’t let retrospectively small complications destroy what you have today and can have in the future. You’ve likely got 30 good years of living ahead of you and if you’re a good honest dad, your boys will always be part of your life for decades to come. And they’ll respect and love you and so you will have everything. With some pretty nasty stuff going down I can remember being a sobbing crying wreck on Christmas day when I was 17 years old. It was horribly distressing. My old man almost lost me as a mate; we didn’t talk for 5 years. He came round to his senses and became a good honest dad and we are great friends today. Don’t let really short term issues drag you down are complicate the bigger future, even if it means spending your last dollar and flying down to met them and escorting them back to Japan. Rach – people, especially some women can be that nasty and lie. I had a girlfriend who lied and told me she had cervical cancer for weeks in an attempt to emotionally divert my persistent questioning about another one of her chronically tangled lies (an appalling web of lies to cover up where she really went and what she did 5 days a week when I was at work). Griller, after this lucky escape have you resolved to go the grumper? It is fail safe. Link to post Share on other sites
2pints-mate 0 Posted October 12, 2006 Share Posted October 12, 2006 le spud you seem to want to talk about "the grumper". You can no do so here: http://www.snowjapanforums.com/ubb/ultimatebb.php/topic/8/6210.html Link to post Share on other sites
griller 9 Posted October 12, 2006 Author Share Posted October 12, 2006 I'll get back to you guys later. To be honest, at first I didn't really care I was just happy to hear it. Link to post Share on other sites
damian 0 Posted October 12, 2006 Share Posted October 12, 2006 Nice one Griller. You came to us for help in a moment of darkness and now you don't have the time for us in better times. You sound like me. Link to post Share on other sites
griller 9 Posted October 12, 2006 Author Share Posted October 12, 2006 I was busy. I had meetings. I wanted to say thanks to people responding. Whats with the attitide? Anyway.... turns out, well it seems to turn out, that she was pregnant but she has had an abortion. I still don't know if it really was mine or not, but I simply don't care any more. I'm just relieved to have the thing over with and get on with my life without having to think about this. I'm surely going to be more careful not to get myself into a position like that again! Thanks for the comments of support. Link to post Share on other sites
TJ OZ 0 Posted October 12, 2006 Share Posted October 12, 2006 Good news for you Griller. Issues like these tend to cloud ones life. Learn from your mistakes and you will be a better person. Are you back with your girlfriend and did you tell her what was going on. Link to post Share on other sites
damian 0 Posted October 12, 2006 Share Posted October 12, 2006 No attitude. Quote: Originally posted by griller: I'm surely going to be more careful not to get myself into a position like that again! And bike spoke busting is the only failsafe way to avoid this position again. Link to post Share on other sites
Ocean11 0 Posted October 13, 2006 Share Posted October 13, 2006 Quote: Originally posted by db le spud: And bike spoke busting is the only failsafe way to avoid this position again. You obviously haven't heard of backward children. Too much praline in the mix doesn't do the walnut any good. Link to post Share on other sites
me jane 0 Posted October 13, 2006 Share Posted October 13, 2006 Great news Griller, glad to hear it's all sorted. Surprised by some people's reactions though Link to post Share on other sites
damian 0 Posted October 13, 2006 Share Posted October 13, 2006 Quote: Originally posted by Ocean11: Quote: Originally posted by db le spud: And bike spoke busting is the only failsafe way to avoid this position again. You obviously haven't heard of backward children. Too much praline in the mix doesn't do the walnut any good. very good. 'In Australia' we call it shit for brains. Link to post Share on other sites
griller 9 Posted June 2, 2008 Author Share Posted June 2, 2008 Remember this story? I have heard it is repeating itself with someone else now. Link to post Share on other sites
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