oblivion 5 Posted August 10, 2012 Share Posted August 10, 2012 There's a few people I have known since coming to Japan who seem to only be able to speak with me properly at enkais (drinking parties). Enkai...very friendly and show real interest, not just a drunken let's talk to the gaijin act. Next day at work.... back to total stranger mode. Curious, anyone else know some of them? Link to post Share on other sites
cal 6 Posted August 10, 2012 Share Posted August 10, 2012 I know a dude like that. Strange thing is he doesn't seem particularly shy as such. Link to post Share on other sites
JellyBelly 1 Posted August 10, 2012 Share Posted August 10, 2012 One or two people I know really open up and are much more friendly after a few beers. I do find it strange that they treat me like a stranger just the next day, but there you go. Link to post Share on other sites
muikabochi 208 Posted August 11, 2012 Share Posted August 11, 2012 One of my good friends here started off like that. He was just really shy and had lots of hangups, but they were worn down. Turns out he is a really decent guy and we get on really well now. Give it time. Link to post Share on other sites
snowbender 3 Posted August 13, 2012 Share Posted August 13, 2012 Some peeps here certainly transform a lot here after a few drinks. Link to post Share on other sites
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