aomorigum 0 Posted April 2, 2008 Share Posted April 2, 2008 I went to an enkai last night and one of my colleagues revealed something rather disturbing to me. He (31) basically told me that he is in a (sexual) relationship with an 11 year old girl. I really don't think he was kidding the way he told me. I'm left wondering what to do about it... what might you do? Link to post Share on other sites
Yuki's Passion 1 Posted April 2, 2008 Share Posted April 2, 2008 Find out if its really true and kick his ass back to the stone age Link to post Share on other sites
thursday 1 Posted April 2, 2008 Share Posted April 2, 2008 kick his ass back to the stone age if it's true or anyway? Link to post Share on other sites
HelperElfMissy 42 Posted April 2, 2008 Share Posted April 2, 2008 That man needs to be behind bars, and know that children are not playthings for his amusement! I am in a situation of knowing of an abuser and not being able to do anything about it (despite having called community services and the police) - Aomorigum, if you are able to do something about it - do it - if not it will haunt you - trust me! Link to post Share on other sites
Mantas 3 Posted April 3, 2008 Share Posted April 3, 2008 Cut his nuts off. Better still. Give me his address and I`ll go do it. Link to post Share on other sites
Ezorisu 0 Posted April 3, 2008 Share Posted April 3, 2008 Definitely stay away from this character from now on. Link to post Share on other sites
indosnm 0 Posted April 3, 2008 Share Posted April 3, 2008 and you didn't flatten him right there and then???? Link to post Share on other sites
Yuki's Passion 1 Posted April 3, 2008 Share Posted April 3, 2008 Originally Posted By: thursday. kick his ass back to the stone age if it's true or anyway? if its true Link to post Share on other sites
HelperElfMissy 42 Posted April 3, 2008 Share Posted April 3, 2008 ...even if he was spouting BS,Creek Boy, that is one sick mind to think it is OK to even fantasize about it! True- you can't really go around kicking ass based on sicko minds - but you can certainly let them know you are shocked and disturbed by them and distance yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
Ezorisu 0 Posted April 3, 2008 Share Posted April 3, 2008 I wonder what would be a good way to let the authorities know about this without having some kind of backlash against yourself (this is Japan after all). There would be a "whistle blower" black mark on your personnel record if you reported this, even if the guy gets arrested and found guilty. Link to post Share on other sites
aomorigum 0 Posted April 3, 2008 Author Share Posted April 3, 2008 Thanks folks. I agree with what is being said for the most part. My initial reaction was that it was a (sick) joke and feeling rather uneasy but he really seemed serious and was into "pouring his heart out mode". I was a bit shocked to be honest and didn't know how to react other than show some disapproval and then get the hell out of there. That's where I am now. I'll be in that office today so will see him for the first time since then.... Link to post Share on other sites
HelperElfMissy 42 Posted April 3, 2008 Share Posted April 3, 2008 Good luck aomorigum! No-one deserves to have been placed in the position you are in. Link to post Share on other sites
tsondaboy 0 Posted April 3, 2008 Share Posted April 3, 2008 A good way to act is to try and find who the girl is and then inform her parents about it. If he was that stupid to brag about it, I don't think it will be hard to fish some more info from him. School name, family name etc would be a good start. Link to post Share on other sites
veronica 2 Posted April 4, 2008 Share Posted April 4, 2008 That's awful, I really hate to hear things like this. I hope you are able to do something about it aomorigum. Link to post Share on other sites
Yuki's Passion 1 Posted April 4, 2008 Share Posted April 4, 2008 Aomorigum, so what happened? And not that it makes a difference but is your colleague japanese or western? Link to post Share on other sites
aomorigum 0 Posted April 4, 2008 Author Share Posted April 4, 2008 He seemed to be avoiding me, though everyone was busy so there wasn't much chance to talk. He is Japanese. I'm meeting a good Japanese friend I can trust tonight and going to ask his advice but I'm definitely going to do something. Link to post Share on other sites
Tubby Beaver 209 Posted April 4, 2008 Share Posted April 4, 2008 Thats sick mate, I'd definitely have to report him or give him a good slapping. Link to post Share on other sites
gerard 6 Posted April 4, 2008 Share Posted April 4, 2008 I dunno.... Sounds pretty wacked. Link to post Share on other sites
thursday 1 Posted April 5, 2008 Share Posted April 5, 2008 I still don't think it's true. Link to post Share on other sites
Curt 1 Posted April 5, 2008 Share Posted April 5, 2008 If it is true, it is very sad. There are some sick people out there. Link to post Share on other sites
bobby12 0 Posted April 8, 2008 Share Posted April 8, 2008 I think you have a responsibility to tell the cops. If this was the UK, that guy would be in serious shit. Link to post Share on other sites
HelperElfMissy 42 Posted April 8, 2008 Share Posted April 8, 2008 Originally Posted By: bobby12 ....If this was the UK, that guy would be in serious shit. If they (the authorities) could prove it. My personal example is an in-law of an in-law who has abused 2 generations within his own family, where the family have closed ranks, and told those within the inner circle who have tried to report it that they will all deny it. Authorities have been informed (by me and others) yet have no intention of acting unless WE are the victim, or they can get a statement from a victim handed to them. Devestating for us as there are children still within his reach, and thier own parents are not protecting them despite living through it themselves! It is not as easy to dob in an abuser as you think. Although that doesn't mean we should stop trying. Link to post Share on other sites
Mantas 3 Posted April 9, 2008 Share Posted April 9, 2008 Originally Posted By: thursday. I still don't think it's true. Maybe not. But Like Mamma bear says, he's a sick little puppy to being even saying this shit. I dont envie your position Aomorigom, but just remember it's not your problem, it between him and the authorities if you do something about it. Link to post Share on other sites
base40 0 Posted April 10, 2008 Share Posted April 10, 2008 Do something. Link to post Share on other sites
aomorigum 0 Posted April 13, 2008 Author Share Posted April 13, 2008 Here's what I have done. I spoke with my trusted Japanese friend and he was quite shocked at what he heard. He told me that he had suspicions about the guy before for whatever reason. Anyway, he is going to do something about it this week and keep me in on the loop. Thought it better that perhaps I didn't do it. I'll keep you posted. Link to post Share on other sites
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