charlotte 0 Posted March 21, 2007 Share Posted March 21, 2007 The things some people spend their time doing. My friend told me about this blog type project - the Virginity Project "Following a light bulb moment on a Californian beach and armed only with curiosity and a bucketful of enthusiasm, she set out to delve into the psyche of people across the UK and to ask them all to reveal their most personal truth - the story of their virginity loss." I'm not sure if I'm particularly interested in knowing these things about strangers, (I think), though some of my friends stories are quite funny. Mine is relatively boring I reckon. You can check it out here if interested. http://www.virginityproject.typepad.com/ Link to post Share on other sites
pie-eater 207 Posted March 22, 2007 Share Posted March 22, 2007 A good friend of mine at uni was determined to keep her virginity until she got married. She did seem to, er, frustrate quite a few guys though - seemingly going nearly all the way and lots of alternative ways to avoid breaking her promise to herself, so to speak. She got quite the (mixed up) reputation. I wonder if she managed it. I'll have to try and get in touch, haven't spoken to her for ages. I might just not mention this particular thing though Link to post Share on other sites
YellowSnow 0 Posted March 22, 2007 Share Posted March 22, 2007 Its stupid to keep you virginity in this day and age. As I mentioned before I was brought up in a Fundamentalist Christian ahem cult. It was a requirement not to have sex before marriage. As all good Christians must. Because I was brought up in this crap I actually took it to heart and didn't even go near girls until I was in my 20's any kind of lewd behavior was punished in some way or the other. This chastity bull has F'ed me up in many ways for life. When I did lose it, it was out of drunken frustration and left me seriously depressed for a year. I left that religion and had a lot of catching up to do sexually, but for a long time I was just looking for virgins for relationships because I didn't feel comfortable around anything but. So there was a choice of being forced back to that religion because the male-female relationships there where the only dynamic I understood. Eventually I got over it, but I still have a lot of relationship problems because these days virgins are the sexual deviants. When you get a bit older and more mature, you totally forget about virginity. Its a stupid ideal for the young. Now for me, I am reluctant to even sleep with one, its to much of a hassle, emotionally and physically and is not good sex. Link to post Share on other sites
nagpants 1 Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 Thanks for sharing Yellow Snow. I didn't have the religious problem, I was more than willing to give mine up - just took longer than I wanted. Link to post Share on other sites
YellowSnow 0 Posted March 26, 2007 Share Posted March 26, 2007 read this crap on the news http://news.yahoo.com/s/afp/20070322/lf_afp/afplifestyleussexchastity_070322082138 Link to post Share on other sites
IIIII 2 Posted March 26, 2007 Share Posted March 26, 2007 Oh dear. "Purity Balls". Pure balls more like. Quote: His two older daughters, aged 11 and 18, have attended the balls while the youngest, aged 4, must wait a few years. Feel sorry for that 4 year old having to wait for a few years. Link to post Share on other sites
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