Karnidge 2 Posted April 16, 2006 Share Posted April 16, 2006 I had a big argument with the g/f last week - something that had been brewing a fair while and a potentially big issue long term. I won't go into details, but we're at a kind of stalemate - it's seemingly difficult to get back on track, but I think both of us want to. Just very awkward and a bit chilly. How do you get out of that stalemate situation? Link to post Share on other sites
Thunderpants 0 Posted April 16, 2006 Share Posted April 16, 2006 That is easy (and difficult at the same time) tell her that you love her (do you?) tell her that you are sorry you made her sad. from here you are on your own Next question Link to post Share on other sites
scoobydoo 0 Posted April 16, 2006 Share Posted April 16, 2006 Been in that kind of situation myself. Often it's a case of pride and/or just not wanted to look as though you're backing down (not saying this is what is in your case of course). If it's worth salvaging, one of both of you will have to turn on the heating. Link to post Share on other sites
dale#1 1 Posted April 17, 2006 Share Posted April 17, 2006 A good physical fight might solve it. Link to post Share on other sites
me jane 0 Posted April 17, 2006 Share Posted April 17, 2006 Quote: Originally posted by Thunderpants: That is easy (and difficult at the same time) tell her that you love her (do you?) tell her that you are sorry you made her sad. Good advice. Difficult without knowing the situaltion but it seems you are both going to have to compromise to some extent. Tell her how you are willing to compromise & ask what she is willing to do. Good Luck. Link to post Share on other sites
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