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babiblu9

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  1. Ok ... I have managed to get to yahoo backgammon games and find the social lounges YAY!!! I looked for you madsthunder and tsondaboy but didn't see you ... Anyhow I wait around just in case you can join later on (its Sunday night in Sydney and im ahead 1 hour ahead of you). By the way, my yahoo name is imbaby_blue.

  2. It's a diabolical situation but not uncommon though. Is your co worker in a relationship too? If yes maybe you can put your wife in touch with her partner. Only kidding!!!

     

    Yes I was in a similar situation before ... Basically I met someone at work, fell in love (lust) with him while I was living with someone else (living in sin). At the time I didn’t know that subconciously I was looking for something else outside my relationship because I wasn’t happy in it. I said this as I noticed you wrote you are “comfortably married” rather than “happily married” ...

     

    Anyhow do you want to save your marriage at all? Maybe you want to take some time out with your wife? Go away somewhere with her, go on a 3-day week end or something like that, be away from your regular home life and environment and be away from your co worker. That may not be long enough for you to sort out your true feelings but at least you give youself a chance to give your marriage a chance ... before you make some serious decision. Best of luck!

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