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guzzlers-baps

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  1. Thanks folks, I understand it is of course entirely our decision and difficult for someone else to comment but I appreciate it. It's a rather emotional time.

     

    We're probably in that group of people who don't particularly want children. Thats why this news is the bombshell it is.

     

    We're giving it all a lot of thought right now and I'll fill in some more details later on.

     

    Thank you!

  2. Thank you for the comments again.

     

    I hear often from people who have children how it changes your life, and of course it surely does.

    People who have kids will surely not imagine life without them and they are the light in their lives, etc, etc.

     

    However, we were verging more towards not wanting them than wanting them.

    We both don't (didn't!) want kids just for the sake of having them when we don't really want them. That's the wrong thing to do.

    I must admit to not actually generally liking babies and children (again something that would surely change with my own), never have.

     

    Anyway we have a lot of thinking to do!

  3. ...but I am pregnant.

     

    Totally unexpected and actually not something we were planning (guzzler and I have been careful, obviously not careful enough) and we even spoke recently of not wanting kids right now for at least another few years if at all, so it is a big shock.

     

    I have very mixed and contrasting emotions right now.

     

    Anyone else been here?

  4. Out by Natsuko Kirino.

     

    Such a lovely story. 4 women who work in a night shift factory. One of the women gets depressed and ends up murdering her husband, and her friends help with the chopping and disposal. The guy who gets pinned for the murder starts stalking them when he gets out of jail and killing them one by one. Not as gruesome as it sounds, honest!

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