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sunrise

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  1. well yeh, of course you can carry it, I've done so, but I prefer wheels, really lightens the load, makes me feel more relaxed, especially after a night flight or jetlagged flight, and also helps prevent further back discomfort from 9-12 hour flights (I'm probably not as hefty as you are). Some of those walks are pretty long between the plane and immigration and I'm often overweight or close to when returning from overseas so I often put as much heavy stuff as I can get away with in my carry-on.

     

    (I don't carry stuff the way that woman does by the way, tee hee!)

  2. Even still, I have also seen the other side of the story - I know two mothers who had post natal depression - one seemed to freak out - took the child and suddenly left her guy (they seemed to be a very happy couple beforehand).

    The other, when I saw her not long after her first child, told me she resented being a mother, because she had to give up a creative career in film production. She said she had mainly had kids cos her husband really wanted them, and she resented that her husband was still going out doing creative work every day (granted he was working his butt off doing it to support the family). A few years later she mustn't have been able to take it anymore. She left him for some other guy, and was really ugly about it and he was devastated.

     

    It's so nice to read what you wrote, Jane, and JM's story. I can imagine it must be such a major life changer! But unfortunately having a baby doesn't guarantee 100% that it will win someone over if they're not feeling good about it, even though it may do so in many cases.

     

    Not an easy decision to make, great to hear all the different points of view.

     

     

     

     

  3. Reading what you've written, I'd like to point out if it's not too late you can always abort if you decide you don't want it. Of course that's another decision in itself, but I personally believe there are definitely situations when that's a better idea. (not that I've ever had a baby or an abortion myself).

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