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Originally posted by big-will:
Perhaps it should be "easy jane" for a while....
I think I prefer lucky jane ;\)

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Originally posted by ProbablyaCrazyPerson:
Do you think that people who are in the habit of being 'easy' can suddenly stop that when they hitch up with someone.
I have seen many cases when that just does not happen.
Depends on the people and the relationship. If the relationship is fulfilling, with mutual love & respect then there's no reason why anyone would need to stray.
Reverse can also happen - someone settles too early, realises what they missed out on several years into a marriage and then goes AWOL.

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Originally posted by nicole:

On another matter, I have a friend who is quite promiscuous, purely because she is afraid of rejection. I think a lot of girls/guys pefer to sleep around rather than get into a relationship that might result in them getting hurt.
And on another matter, what is it with all these affairs. I know a girl who has a "married with 2 kids boyfriend". She's very proud of it and tells everyone. I guess it helps her self esteem cos she convinces herself that she must be better than the wife.
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Cheating is low. If anything it should lower one's self esteem.

 

The worst scenario is when women have affairs with married men in the hope that they'll leave their wives and marry them instead. As if a guy like that wouldn't do it again to them. Stupid.

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The worst scenario is when women have affairs with married men in the hope that they'll leave their wives and marry them instead. As if a guy like that wouldn't do it again to them. Stupid.
Not necessarily so at all. There are a lot of courses and a lot of horses. Live a bit longer and you might encounter some.
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> my wife is the apple of my eye

 

That's very nice. As is mine.

 

But some husbands and some wives don't always keep their marriage vows to the letter, which always makes for trouble.

 

My point being to rebut nicole's suggestion that 'cheating' would likely be serial behaviour on the part of a man whose first wife didn't keep her vows - he might very well be looking for a second one that will. And hedging his bets at the same time, as older men are wont to do. (I'm sure there are many men who don't want to beg their wife not to be a starfish, if you get my drift. I'm sure women also have their gripes too.)

 

We've had a few crises of our own, and I don't know of anybody else who hasn't, so I'm speaking from experience here.

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Originally posted by Ocean11:
> my wife is the apple of my eye

My point being to rebut nicole's suggestion that 'cheating' would likely be serial behaviour on the part of a man whose first wife didn't keep her vows - he might very well be looking for a second one that will. And hedging his bets at the same time, as older men are wont to do.
Riiiiightt... so because the first wife turned out to be a dud, he's completely justified in looking for a better replacement?

Of course, all marriages have their problems and a lot of them don't work out, but that's no justification to cheat. If you aren't happy in your relationship, end it, and then move onto another one.
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>In a monogamous relationship, there's more ways to 'cheat' than you're giving credit for ...
Would this be considered cheating?

I have a J-friend who works for the girls' site. No porn, no nudity, no talking dirty and she earns 40 plus man a month for a few hours work a night. What kind of people pay for that?
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Having a crisis (which I agree we all have) is not the same as cheating. It is, actually black and white. Cheat or don't. Not a very difficult concept. The grey that you have to deal with could easily be dealt with in the realm of black or white (cheat or don't cheat.)

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It's the black and white vision of some of the righteous folks on here, with the blobs of grey that the less fortunate among us have to deal with, innit.
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You're like a left-wing version of Dr Phil.
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Originally posted by Kintaro:
Having a crisis (which I agree we all have) is not the same as cheating. It is, actually black and white. Cheat or don't. Not a very difficult concept. The grey that you have to deal with could easily be dealt with in the realm of black or white (cheat or don't cheat.)
Well said.
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For me, sexual fidelity is a fundamental part of marriage or a de facto relationship.

 

It is easily possible for one to betray a personal partnership without committing adultery. At which point is it acceptable for the other to find comfort elsewhere?

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What do children have to do with cheating? "Hey honey, little Johnny has been real bad today so I'm gonna go boink the neighbor.' wakaranai.gif

 

I don't have children. But I would think it would make one even more loyal to keep the family together and provide a healthy environment for the children to grow up in.

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