echineko 1 Posted June 13, 2005 Share Posted June 13, 2005 What do you do when breakup with boyfriend or girlfriend to make better mood? Link to post Share on other sites
sakebomb 0 Posted June 13, 2005 Share Posted June 13, 2005 I like to gather together all the things they gave me or we ever shared and burn them. Then move to the mountains and question my existence. Link to post Share on other sites
Oyuki kigan 0 Posted June 13, 2005 Share Posted June 13, 2005 Move back to Japan Link to post Share on other sites
mfurmane 0 Posted June 13, 2005 Share Posted June 13, 2005 go hang out with the friends that she never liked. Link to post Share on other sites
grungy-gonads 54 Posted June 13, 2005 Share Posted June 13, 2005 Find the next one. Link to post Share on other sites
tsondaboy 0 Posted June 13, 2005 Share Posted June 13, 2005 If you dump someone, then better stop keeping contact with him. No phones, mails, anything that reminds you to him. The more you are around the harder for him to get over it. If you were dumped same wise loose contact and start hanging out with friends. What always works for me is some shopping therapy. Spend the weekend in the shops buying staff for myself always makes me feel better. Link to post Share on other sites
JellyBelly 1 Posted June 13, 2005 Share Posted June 13, 2005 Hard to do that first one when you work with them. Workplace relationships never seem to be a good thing. Link to post Share on other sites
miteyak 0 Posted June 14, 2005 Share Posted June 14, 2005 Call me old-fashioned, but I think vodka and a week of casual sex is hard to beat... Link to post Share on other sites
Ocean11 0 Posted June 14, 2005 Share Posted June 14, 2005 I never have that problem as I'm a firm believer in having an insurance policy. The hard feelings are always on the other side... Link to post Share on other sites
maoriboy 0 Posted June 14, 2005 Share Posted June 14, 2005 I agree with you Miteyak. Some casual shagging with people who dont even remotely remind you of the ex is great stress relief. Burning their belongings and dancing round them naked comes a close second Link to post Share on other sites
scouser 4 Posted June 14, 2005 Share Posted June 14, 2005 Not had too many big breakups in my time but I think it has been one of: sulk, get drunk, go out with the lads, buy things... Link to post Share on other sites
Dims 0 Posted June 14, 2005 Share Posted June 14, 2005 A back up plan is always a good idea. Hard to feel bad and think of the ex when you are in the throes of a good orgasm. Other than that: 1. Always try to be the dumper, not the dumpee 2. Go out and do all the things that you couldn't do easily while in a relationship 3. Have fun with your friends and feel good that you have a good crew of people that you enjoy hanging out with and that enjoy your company as well And don't mope, no one likes a moper! Link to post Share on other sites
Yuki's Passion 1 Posted June 14, 2005 Share Posted June 14, 2005 ...agree with the above for the most part BUT: doesnt anybody cry? When my Ex and I broke up after dating (forever), I cried like a baby that day Link to post Share on other sites
meat 0 Posted June 14, 2005 Share Posted June 14, 2005 I have cried before yes a girl at college. We went out for 6 months but she was a dream. She sadly didn't quite feel the same. I thought the world had collapsed. And I did the next day too, I was real down for ages. Link to post Share on other sites
Dims 0 Posted June 14, 2005 Share Posted June 14, 2005 I have to admit like Cat stephens said, the first cut is the deepest. I was with my first love for nearly two years in college and when we split up I was a mess for months. Should have broke all contact but tried to remian friends and it was like a knife twisting into my heart. Always thinking what she was doing, who she was with, putting on the brave face when I saw her with someone else. Man that was one time in my life I don't want to go through again, but with the nelp of goood friends and good times I got back on track. It is a hard time. Link to post Share on other sites
yoroshiku onegai shimasu 2 Posted June 14, 2005 Share Posted June 14, 2005 Exactly the same happened to me. I tried to be friends, hoping for me, but it just wasn't going to happen and it killed me when I saw here with another guy. I was a bit of a mess with all that. Link to post Share on other sites
miteyak 0 Posted June 14, 2005 Share Posted June 14, 2005 And we were doing so well until Yamakashi opened the floodgates... sensitive lot, aren't we... Link to post Share on other sites
Yuki's Passion 1 Posted June 14, 2005 Share Posted June 14, 2005 I knew you were gonna give me $hit Wots wrong with me being in touch with my sensitive side for an hour or two? Link to post Share on other sites
joshnii 2 Posted June 15, 2005 Share Posted June 15, 2005 I've never had a traumatic break-up. Yet. Link to post Share on other sites
I'm An Extremely Bald Man 0 Posted June 15, 2005 Share Posted June 15, 2005 Lose hair. Or pull it out. The only painful break up I have had was also at college. She was on the same course, so I had to put up with seeing here almost every day for about a year. And she was popular too, so it wasn't fun.... Link to post Share on other sites
SplendidSeekerOfMatferon6 0 Posted June 15, 2005 Share Posted June 15, 2005 I've never been dumped, so I don't know the feeling. Splendid! Link to post Share on other sites
Stormreign 0 Posted June 15, 2005 Share Posted June 15, 2005 Get drunk, go surfing, listen to MXPX or emo punk rock, for a day or so (in no particular order).. then sleep with her best friend even if she dumped me. .. then call my mum Link to post Share on other sites
merryJim 1 Posted June 15, 2005 Share Posted June 15, 2005 ...standing in line begging for it as best friends always are.... This is funny - proof Britters used to be hot: http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&category=1469&item=5586484632&rd=1 Sorry off topic Link to post Share on other sites
sunrise 0 Posted June 16, 2005 Share Posted June 16, 2005 What? No bidders? Echineko - did you break up with someone? Is that why you asked? Link to post Share on other sites
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