farquah 0 Posted June 7, 2005 Share Posted June 7, 2005 Was in the Japan Times that mixed Onsen are making a comeback in the poularity stakes, especially amongst young women. Users reported that mixed onsen is a more enjoyable bathing experiance and more social, and water richer in minerals due to not being so watered down as only one bath as opposed to seperate ones. Mixed Onsen eticate includes, not looking at bathers when entering the bath, leaving a gap of three people between you and neighbour and making conversation. How about people here, would you go to mixed onsen?? Link to post Share on other sites
Yuki's Passion 1 Posted June 7, 2005 Share Posted June 7, 2005 混浴 (konyoku) = mixed onsen I love em! Its nice when you can go in there with your friends, both men and women, drink a beer, and talk while relaxing in a nice bath. Having women in the bath totally changes the atmosphere making it nicer in a different way. When I worked in Niseko my coworkers and I went all the time together. Girls would wear a towel into the bath but take it off once in. Same with the guys - but the girls wernt embarrassed at all. Guess theyre just normal J-peeps. Dont see what the big deal is with being naked Link to post Share on other sites
Yuki's Passion 1 Posted June 7, 2005 Share Posted June 7, 2005 F.Y.I. Onsen wernt seperated until Perry and his Black Ships came rolling into Japan... Link to post Share on other sites
Oyuki kigan 0 Posted June 7, 2005 Share Posted June 7, 2005 I'm interested about the Perry thing. How did it come about? Surely he didn't have that much pull culturally that he could say 'you know, i'm not digging this seperate bathing thing. How about we all get in together?'. Or did he just start bathing with some girls and it caught on like a bad fashion trend? Link to post Share on other sites
Yuki's Passion 1 Posted June 7, 2005 Share Posted June 7, 2005 I read it in an English book about Onsens in Japan...something like an Onsen guide to Japan, although it really only deals with the "most known/popular onsen." There are sooo many not so well known onsen out there. Link to post Share on other sites
jared 0 Posted June 7, 2005 Share Posted June 7, 2005 In my exp. its usually old ladies that are in there or mums with kids and dad - nothing terribly exciting if thats what you are after. Link to post Share on other sites
sunrise 0 Posted June 8, 2005 Share Posted June 8, 2005 Watch out, you might become a convertee.... Link to post Share on other sites
Oyuki kigan 0 Posted June 8, 2005 Share Posted June 8, 2005 I never got the chance, but konyoku and the shikoku meguri are on my list when i get back Link to post Share on other sites
miteyak 0 Posted June 8, 2005 Share Posted June 8, 2005 Love the mixed onsens generally, they have added greatly to mountain trips by allowing what would normally be a relaxing thirty minutes alone (or being harassed as stated above), turn into a few hours and a few beers with my partner, family or friends. Sometimes guys just can't seem to get with the program though, and the experience is occasionally ruined by immature [censored] who just can't seem to get over the idea that they're surrounded by naked women (fancy that). Which reminds me of my first konyoku experience. had been to the onsen at the grand hotel near Niseko a few times, no idea it was a konyoku. My friend was walking ahead of me, swinging free, stepping over the divide, only to be brought up short as he realized his bits were dangling inches from tha face of a nice young Japanese lady. The shock only prolonged the incident as he momentarily froze... the girl seemed to find it rather amusing though, as did I. Link to post Share on other sites
Oyuki kigan 0 Posted June 8, 2005 Share Posted June 8, 2005 I heard a story froma friend about a time she went with some canadian and japanese friends to one in the Hokkaido countryside. They had been drinking, and the japanese girls were curious if foriegn guys were really endowed as the mythical legends claimed. So the one guy and the girls left the onsen modestly covered to an area away from the rest of the bathers. Apparently, he must have been pretty endowed, 'cause to everyone's amusement the japanese girls came running back to the onsen screaming. Link to post Share on other sites
Yuki's Passion 1 Posted June 8, 2005 Share Posted June 8, 2005 I was at a konyoku in Hiroshima with about 6 friends and it was the first time for 2 of the foreign girls. They were quite embarrassed at first and kept the towels on. Im guessing because they were nervous they were drinking their beers really quickly; after a beer or two, in bout 30 mins, they were in there comparing breasts, their bums, and then even their, ummm... Link to post Share on other sites
Weegeoff 0 Posted June 9, 2005 Share Posted June 9, 2005 With the european girls you could spot aircraft blondes Link to post Share on other sites
advantyper 0 Posted June 9, 2005 Share Posted June 9, 2005 Mix onsen is better I think, allow more interaction between people. Link to post Share on other sites
RobBright 35 Posted January 21, 2010 Share Posted January 21, 2010 Mixed onsen with some attractive blonde swedish girls would be nice. Link to post Share on other sites
Jynxx 4 Posted January 21, 2010 Share Posted January 21, 2010 Being in Germany, the sauna is mixed, there are lakes which is designated FKK (basically, nudist) hence Germans will find Japanese Onsen concept no problem ... Missus couldn't handle hot baths when I first met her. Now she is up to hot Japanese baths. We love Onsen and Ryokan Link to post Share on other sites
snowdude 44 Posted January 21, 2010 Share Posted January 21, 2010 Well I have been to mixed onsens lots of times with my wife, and we have no problem at all. She is Japanese but doesn't mind to go to mixed onsen. In a lot of ways it is more relaxed actually, as you tend to drum up a conversation with others of both sexes. Beats being in a mens only bath and having some Japanese ojisan asking me are you American, Can I practice my shitty English with you!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
RobBright 35 Posted January 21, 2010 Share Posted January 21, 2010 Do you still wear modesty towels? Link to post Share on other sites
snowdude 44 Posted January 21, 2010 Share Posted January 21, 2010 My wife does, but removes the towl completly if it is a milky onsen or when no one much around. I normally have my small onsen towl that I carry around with me anyway. But I don't use it in the water only when walking around. Link to post Share on other sites
Jynxx 4 Posted January 21, 2010 Share Posted January 21, 2010 I use em if there are wimmen around. Guys around then I won't bother. My missus? mmmm... can't recall. It's never been crowded. Probably yes if it is. Link to post Share on other sites
quattro 1 Posted January 21, 2010 Share Posted January 21, 2010 Mixed Onsens are great. Get to spend time with the wife and kids. Link to post Share on other sites
thursday 1 Posted January 22, 2010 Share Posted January 22, 2010 yeah. I'd like to do that, just a soon as he gets old enough to take the heat. Link to post Share on other sites
Mantas 3 Posted January 22, 2010 Share Posted January 22, 2010 I wouldn't trust myself in a mixed onsen. some etiquette rules would be broken straight away. Link to post Share on other sites
Tubby Beaver 209 Posted January 23, 2010 Share Posted January 23, 2010 never been in a designated mixed onsen, but have been to onsen where dads have brought in their young daughters. Of course they are really young and aren't at all phased by it but it's kinda creepy for me. I would be ok if it were adults, I like being naked! Link to post Share on other sites
Yuki's Passion 1 Posted January 23, 2010 Share Posted January 23, 2010 Many onsen resorts have kashikiri for couples/families. Found a few around Kansai recently. Link to post Share on other sites
thursday 1 Posted January 23, 2010 Share Posted January 23, 2010 Originally Posted By: Tubby Beaver never been in a designated mixed onsen, but have been to onsen where dads have brought in their young daughters. Of course they are really young and aren't at all phased by it but it's kinda creepy for me. I would be ok if it were adults, I like being naked! TB. Careful. This is a manifestation of reverse subconcious viewpoints. You are borderline perve. Link to post Share on other sites
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